#PariTheMuse: Writing out of love about understanding

Do you think you have understanding towards others?Have you ever had difficulties understanding another person’s view point? Someone else’s lifestyle?

Their traditions, habits, behavior,the way they work, talk, walk, eat,feel,get stuck, hurry,their home interior, colors they wear, their own skin color, gender identity, religion, type of friends they have, the things they get depressed about and the things that makes them high and......please add to this list.

„Understanding is having clear insight into ideas and feelings. We thoughtfully seek to comprehend the full truth. We are mindful of what is the most important. We are deeply present to others with compassion and accuracy, helping them to discern their own clarity....”

These are the words I copied from the card I picked. Yes I pick cards J even angel cards except I don’t have them I have virtues card! check it out on www.virtuesproject.com and you can pick one on line, make sure you wish what virtue do you need for the certain issue you have in mind. I actually have the cards at home and I asked my soul what virtue do I need for my meeting today and I picked understanding!

What I liked mostly about what it said was that we are deeply present to others with compassion and accuracy helping them to discern their own clarity. Why is this sometimes so difficult? Is it because we think we know a lot and we want to tell the other one what to do? And if she/he doesn’t listen to us then we get frustrated?

Whatever the reason, it is possible that we need each other sometimes just to Be there! If you are a man reading me, please note that women want you to be there to listen and above that we always appreciate a warm loving hug, you can keep your advice for after that, believe me it will sit in because you guys are very clever and we really really know that you have the answer, it is just that you may at that time need a hug too because lets be honest you may panic when you see a desperate woman.

If you are a woman and your girlfriend is talking to you, please please keep quiet and let her talk. I know I interrupt my girlfriends a lot myself. I am just realizing and sharing.

Silence and presence is healing, after that hugs and physical expression of love is always welcomed in the world of human beings.

Pick your card for today you will know why it inspired me to write.

www.virtuesproject.com