Have you met a hero? Are you one yourself? Did you want to be a hero when you were a child? I did!
I
often thought about being a hero, I even fantasized about it. One of
them was a heroic story of I climbing a wall or a tree to save a little
bird for a blond lady's child! I repeatedly had that fantasy in mind and
it felt great, she was so pleased when I gave her the little bird.
I
am wondering is it the middle Eastern culture that creates that crave
in us? Is it because we are so invisible in our big families that the
only way to be seen is for us to be heroes? All I know is that many of
us subconsciously are still doing that. Unless we are heroes we are not
good enough for our mothers or fathers. Sometimes we jeopardize our
health but we keep struggling.
What if we stop and
reflect, examine the situation and see if we are doing whatever we are
doing for the sake of loving it or, are we still in fantasy.
I
have never been able to climb a tree or a wall and have never saved a
bird. I have gone hiking and that I did for the sake of loving it. That
blond lady I always wanted to please by the way I figured out was my
beautiful blond, blue eyed mother to whom I felt invisible. She saw me
in her capacity, I couldn't see neither feel it.
The
thing is that until and unless I see myself I will remain invisible to
the world. It is good to begin to see ourselves for who we really are.
Seeing one self is the beginning, because we are One! And when we begin
seeing others we will see different aspects of ourselves in others.
Now
bare with me. God forbid we see negativity and darkness in others, that
as well, is in ourselves. But, when we see virtues and light in
others,the good news is we have them in us too.
Today I
wanted to knock at the door of a person, I was standing there hesitant,
finding 100000 reasons of why I shouldn't knock at his door. But I
finally did. Do you think I should feel like a hero? At least for today?
My mind was stuck, my soul took over. I, compare to myself, one minute
before and after I knocked that door, was earth and heaven!
My
point is if we don't see ourselves and if we do not recognize what we
do everyday, if we do not bring ourselves to account each day, both with
good and less good deeds we keep expecting others to encourage or give
credit to us. And when they don't we get frustrated.
Find the hero in yourself every evening and identify small heroic acts in others, it is cool!
Monday, January 6, 2014
Writing to learn how to behave :)
Have you ever felt you just want to be by yourself? You do not want to socialize and meet other people? I think it happens to everyone once in a while. I am trying to figure out what can be the reason.
Often time my patients who come with low energy and lack of motivation express that they don't have the mood to meet other people. It comes out in the consultation that either they have been disappointed in some friends or, they have had a heartbreak and in some it is because they can't " Be Themselves" they say.
Disappointment comes from having expectations at first. Unfortunately we have been - in one way or another- brought up with being expected to be someone we were not. Just look back at the way we were brought up, we had to behave when we wanted to be playful, we had to be serious when we wanted to laugh and giggle in some serious setting in our childhood. We had to stay clean in a fancy dress when we wanted to play and get muddy:)
Our brain has learned this pattern and we continue to do the same until we decide to change pattern.
Changing pattern is a very interesting phenomenon. Why do I not laugh in the middle of a concert? Is it because I have been told? Have I ever made that as my choice?
The thing I am suggesting here is to begin with small behavioral patterns we have and question them to see weather we are still following an old pattern and is there an authority who is forcing me to do that or am I the one who tells me not to laugh in the middle of a concert? :)
There are so many of such behaviors, should I always agree in gathering and consultations? Should I avoid conflicts? Should I get dress to please the people I am meeting?
Why shouldn't I bite back when someone says something hurtful to me? Is it because I can't bite back? Is it because I have been taught not to bite back? Or, is it because I am a descent woman and I don't bite back?
Often time my patients who come with low energy and lack of motivation express that they don't have the mood to meet other people. It comes out in the consultation that either they have been disappointed in some friends or, they have had a heartbreak and in some it is because they can't " Be Themselves" they say.
Disappointment comes from having expectations at first. Unfortunately we have been - in one way or another- brought up with being expected to be someone we were not. Just look back at the way we were brought up, we had to behave when we wanted to be playful, we had to be serious when we wanted to laugh and giggle in some serious setting in our childhood. We had to stay clean in a fancy dress when we wanted to play and get muddy:)
Our brain has learned this pattern and we continue to do the same until we decide to change pattern.
Changing pattern is a very interesting phenomenon. Why do I not laugh in the middle of a concert? Is it because I have been told? Have I ever made that as my choice?
The thing I am suggesting here is to begin with small behavioral patterns we have and question them to see weather we are still following an old pattern and is there an authority who is forcing me to do that or am I the one who tells me not to laugh in the middle of a concert? :)
There are so many of such behaviors, should I always agree in gathering and consultations? Should I avoid conflicts? Should I get dress to please the people I am meeting?
Why shouldn't I bite back when someone says something hurtful to me? Is it because I can't bite back? Is it because I have been taught not to bite back? Or, is it because I am a descent woman and I don't bite back?
Friday, January 3, 2014
My expectant eyes
وقتى نامه ات نرسيد
در صندوقچهء قلبم بدنبال سرمه گشتم
تا چشمان منتظرم را
راضى كنم
وقتى در چشمانت
ديگر آن نگاه آشنا نبود
در جعبه مادربزرگ
بدنبال آن ماتيك قرمز گشتم.
When your letter didn't arrive
In that antique box of my heart
I looked for kohl
To satisfy my expectant eyes
When your eyes didn't have that familiar look
In grandma's box
I looked for the red lipstick .
پروانه ا.فريد
@Behin HajiPourReason for Acne, believe in ugliness!!!!
I had a great day at work with some good patients. Yes who are good patients? Good patients are either the ones who have come back to you with better health and improvement or, new ones who leave your room very happy and hopeful.
I had some of them yesterday.
One was a case with acne or
better say boils in the back which had almost totally cleared up except for the
scars and the patient was very satisfied and that made me very happy and
grateful. The thing is that they are the patients who would cooperate with my
way of approaching the issue. They see how the emotions and physical symptoms
are interconnected and they come along on the journey I am taking them. It is,
at the end, the matter of trust. If they trust everything will work out.
Trust in the doctor we approach is essential, because when
we do so, we open up some space for healing. Of course the doctor should be a
skilled one and, someone who is connected to the Source, who believes in Love!
Acne is mostly because of hormonal imbalances be it in
puberty or older age. What I am interested in is that what causes the hormonal
changes in older age? That is when I feel there are some unresolved emotional
issues which needs to be addressed. If a patient comes to me often times he/she
has tried everything else and now is open to some alternative ways.
If you are interested to learn more about my approach of
treating acne here is a link to give you a little introduction. You can try
some of the things and see if it works for you. If it doesn’t it is because most probably, you need to consult with me :)
http://www.natural-and-homeopathic-remedies.com/homeopathic-treatment-for-acne.html
http://www.natural-and-homeopathic-remedies.com/homeopathic-treatment-for-acne.html
Thursday, January 2, 2014
9 Affirmation for 2014 Resolution
It is already the 2nd of January and I haven't had my New Year's resolution written. I am going to make it easy for myself and write them as points.
My main resolution for this year is to heal more, be it through written, audio or video material.
I began to experiment how to make an audio material on www.soundcloud.com.
Hopefully I will mange to let you hear my voice, not singing no no don't worry, just talking! Often time my patients recorded when I began to talk to them, some made notes and I was wondering did I say so much they had to record it? I still don't know but I am planning to make it easier for them.
I created a website www.natural-and-homeopathic-remedies.com to make it easier for you to be able to help yourself by some home remedies. In this website I have whole lot of information about the emotional and physical reasons for some diseases. So there is a lot to read but since some of us like to hear and listen more I am thinking I should provide more audio material.
With the year 2014 resolution I would like to involve you in my own development and healing. I am a believer of affirmations because that is what we do all the time, it is just that the affirmations have a heavy and/or negative weigh to them. When we talk to ourselves we usually have high expectations sometimes beyond our capacities and that can make us tired and consequently depressed or sick. We need to learn to talk to ourselves in a loving way, because then our loving talks to others will be genuine.
Now I am going to write my own resolutions and see if they are good for you. If you relate to some of them, repeat them for a week and really really do it everyday specially when you hear your mind saying negative stuff to yourself :) It is the brain that talks negative, the soul always communicates with love.
The bottom line is: I am (and you are) a good person and we want to be a better one. My attitude towards life is of gratitude I want to be more grateful. I want to care for myself, my health and my emotions so as I can serve others better because that is the ultimate goal of a sound-minded human being.
Now here are the affirmations which are sort of resolutions:
I say "thank you" when someone complements me.
I accept myself as a human+being and develop my "being" far more than my "human" side.
I accept myself, I accept others, others accept me.
I am grateful for being a woman/ I am grateful for being a man.
I am a noble creation, I live up to my dignity.
I am grateful for my life.
I take care of my body and soul.(eat well and meditate &pray well)
I believe in Oneness of mankind. (we are One soul in many bodies)
I am here to serve!
(servitude is a virtue that only human has and God doesn't, isn't that fascinating)
It is going to be a great year this 2014:)
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My main resolution for this year is to heal more, be it through written, audio or video material.
I began to experiment how to make an audio material on www.soundcloud.com.
Hopefully I will mange to let you hear my voice, not singing no no don't worry, just talking! Often time my patients recorded when I began to talk to them, some made notes and I was wondering did I say so much they had to record it? I still don't know but I am planning to make it easier for them.
I created a website www.natural-and-homeopathic-remedies.com to make it easier for you to be able to help yourself by some home remedies. In this website I have whole lot of information about the emotional and physical reasons for some diseases. So there is a lot to read but since some of us like to hear and listen more I am thinking I should provide more audio material.
With the year 2014 resolution I would like to involve you in my own development and healing. I am a believer of affirmations because that is what we do all the time, it is just that the affirmations have a heavy and/or negative weigh to them. When we talk to ourselves we usually have high expectations sometimes beyond our capacities and that can make us tired and consequently depressed or sick. We need to learn to talk to ourselves in a loving way, because then our loving talks to others will be genuine.
Now I am going to write my own resolutions and see if they are good for you. If you relate to some of them, repeat them for a week and really really do it everyday specially when you hear your mind saying negative stuff to yourself :) It is the brain that talks negative, the soul always communicates with love.
The bottom line is: I am (and you are) a good person and we want to be a better one. My attitude towards life is of gratitude I want to be more grateful. I want to care for myself, my health and my emotions so as I can serve others better because that is the ultimate goal of a sound-minded human being.
Now here are the affirmations which are sort of resolutions:
I say "thank you" when someone complements me.
I accept myself as a human+being and develop my "being" far more than my "human" side.
I accept myself, I accept others, others accept me.
I am grateful for being a woman/ I am grateful for being a man.
I am a noble creation, I live up to my dignity.
I am grateful for my life.
I take care of my body and soul.(eat well and meditate &pray well)
I believe in Oneness of mankind. (we are One soul in many bodies)
I am here to serve!
(servitude is a virtue that only human has and God doesn't, isn't that fascinating)
It is going to be a great year this 2014:)
Wednesday, January 1, 2014
Booseh a Poem in Persian which means" Kiss"
بوسه
قلمم بار دگر كاغذش را بوسيد
و به او گفت:
به ياد مى آرى آن شب مهتابى
كه به تو گفتم و بى تو
" من از آن كوچه گذشتم"
قلمم بار دگر كاغذش را بوسيد
و به او گفت چرا
" بالش تو پُر پروازِ پرِ چلچله هاست؟
من پُر از دغدغه هاى رفتنم
تو كجا؟
تو بمان!
تو كه نيستى همه جا دفتر بى برگى
با تو اما،
خانه ها پاييزيست
رنگ دارد همه رنگ
زرد و نارنجى و سرخ،
تو سفيد!
قلمم بار دگر كاغذش را بوسيد
و به او گفت عزيزم تو بمان!
من اگر " نسپارم ره تنهايى خويش
بر تن پاك تو برگ
چه كسى ميداند
من و تو عاشق دلباخته ايم.
PariTheMuse
https://soundcloud.com/parithemuse/booseh-kiss
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